Welcome to the video series that’s all about climbing the ladder of vibration and manifesting the life of your dreams. I’m Stephanie Mulac, and today we’re going to be talking about choosing positive friends.
Yes, this is something that always trips us up a little bit because there’s so many people in our lives that may fall into one of two categories. We either have the friends that are really super upbeat and positive or, invariably, we have those people who, every time you’re around them, they’re just a downer. It’s like, “Hello, how are you doing today?” And they look back at you and go, “Oh, it’s such an awful day. I stubbed my toe on the way to work. I tripped going out the door.” And no matter what you say, no matter what you reply, there’s always something negative or something that they’re talking about to find the negativity in every situation in their lives.
Now, the truth is, is that if you hang around people like this long enough, they will literally pull you down. You may even think that you have enough of a strong constitution that you’re not going to let them do this, but over and over and over again, when this is the environment that you’re in, and this is what you’re subjecting yourself to on a daily or a weekly basis, this will make a difference in your life, just in the same way that it makes a difference if you surround yourself with positive, upbeat people.
So let me ask you this. If you have to choose between one or the other, what choice are you going to make? Now, understandably, there are some situations where you may not be able to necessarily distance yourself, if these are coworkers that you don’t really have a choice of being around on a daily basis or it’s something of that nature. But if you stop and take a look at your circle of friends that you do have choices about, then you have to start looking at who are the people that you have fun with? Who are the people that uplift you? Who are the people that accept your uplifting them? Those are the people you wanna surround yourself with and make a concerted effort to weed out the negative friends and the negativity that you have in your life, and if you do this frequently enough, you’re going to see an upleveling of your energy and the positivity that surrounds you.
So try it, and then leave a comment below and let me know how it works out for you. And if you know of anyone that would benefit from this video please feel free to share it with them. And until next time, keep climbing the ladder of vibration.