Welcome to the video series that’s all about climbing the ladder of vibration and manifesting the life of your dreams. I’m Stephanie Mulac and today, we are going to be talking about how to shift your vibration when dealing with negative people.
So the first thing we’re going to take a look at, is the situation where you’re surrounded with somebody who is being negative in your immediate environment. This could be a friend, a coworker, somebody in your family that is just exhibiting negativity, not necessarily toward you but just in general, negativity about something or someone. So at that point, when you are listening to this and becoming engaged in part of this conversation, that negativity is drawing you down. It’s keeping you at a level one vibration, step one.
Now, what you want to do, in order to start shifting away from this level and moving up to level two and ultimately level three is, to acknowledge internally that you’re in the middle of this situation and that you’re going to actually take steps to shift the negativity that you’re being exposed to. Now, those steps may be something as simple as stopping and instead of sitting there and getting right into the middle of this conversation with this person, who’s being negative and saying: yes, I know what you mean, I’ve had the same experience and so on. Instead of commiserating with this person, step back and say to yourself, this person may be having a bad day.
This person may have had an experience in their past that has caused them to react this way and think about possibly what it is that’s causing this behavior. Now, doing that is going to immediately start to shift you from level one to level two. And you’re gonna be amazed at how it’s going to condition you and allow you, even though this other person is going through this, it’s going to allow you to actually raise your vibration.
Now, I want to caution you, this exercise is not about shifting their vibration. Whatever they’re going through, whatever reason that they are surrounded by negativity, this is not your opportunity to try and bring them along with you through the steps in the ladder of vibration. This is just about you, moving through your own vibrational ladder to shift your own energy.
So once you do the first step and take a look at recognizing that they’re going through something, thinking about why maybe they’re experiencing this negativity. Then you need, in order to go from level two to level three, you need to bring yourself up and actually distance yourself from the negativity that this person is projecting into your immediate environment. Now, after you actually listen to them, give them your support, be the friend that you are, whatever that balance of communication is. Maybe what you want to do is you want to go for a walk. You want to maybe get yourself a cup of coffee or tea or indulge in something that is along the lines of pampering yourself and distancing yourself from this situation that you were just in, in order to fully raise yourself from level two to level three.
And bring yourself into a level of high vibration that is giving you something that you enjoy, doing something that brings you gratification and excitement or relaxation or anything that will make you feel better about the situation and distance yourself from that negativity.
So if you do these steps, you’re going to see how easy it is to shift yourself from level one to level two to level three and make a difference in your own vibrational level. Now, if you enjoyed this video, give it a big thumbs up, click the Like button below and if you know of anyone who would benefit from this message, please feel free to share it with them. And until next time, keep climbing that ladder of vibration.