Is it truly other people’s fault?

Welcome to the video series that’s all about climbing the ladder of vibration, and manifesting the life of your dreams. I’m Stephanie Mulac, and today, we are talking about not blaming others.

Now, what we want to do here is we want to take a really good solid look at the opportunity when it arises, to take responsibility for your own actions, your own thoughts, the results or outcomes of things that you have a direct hand in. And not have a knee jerk reaction that if something goes wrong, that you’ve played a part in, to automatically look for a way to blame others. Now, you may see this in a lot of people around you because it’s something that people do very, very frequently.

I dare say it’s almost, in some instances, become human nature, and you’ll see this in people, you might see it in the workplace where something goes wrong and the first thing they do is: “well, I couldn’t do that because the computer systems were down, and the technical support department wasn’t getting around to it fast enough, so that’s why I didn’t get my work done”. Or in other cases: “I tried to meet a deadline, but the people that I was working with, didn’t come through on their parts, so I had to do their jobs, and even though I had to do their jobs, I was overworked, so as a result, the entire project suffered”.

And on and on and on, and I mean, you will see things like this happen with sadly, kids in school, spouses, relatives, co-workers, a lot of people have this tendency to always point a finger and blame someone else. And in reality, they are at least in part, if not fully responsible for the outcomes of the situations that they are involved in. Now, if you truly have no part of something, of course, that’s a different story, but there is so much mileage in being able to square your shoulders and say, it was my fault. I messed up, I didn’t come through, I failed in something that I set a goal for, and I’m taking personal responsibility for it.

You would be amazed at how, even though something may not have gone right, which intuitively you may think that would take you down from a level three vibration to a level one vibration if something didn’t turn out. But if something just implodes, and you acknowledge that you are the one who is responsible for it, it will keep you up in that high vibrating level, because you haven’t interjected negativity into the situation by blaming someone else and trying to shift the blame and not taking personal responsibility.

So keep yourself at a high level three vibration, give me a big thumbs up, and click the like button below if you enjoyed this video and leave a comment and let me know what it means to you and if you know of anyone else who could use this message, please feel free to share it with them. And until next time, keep climbing that ladder of vibration.

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