Don’t Forget To Reward Yourself

Welcome to the video series that’s all about climbing the ladder of vibration and manifesting the life of your dreams. I’m Stephanie Mulac and today, we are going to be talking about the importance of self-care. Now that’s a very broad topic that we’re going to talk about, on many levels, but today the part of self-care that I wanna share with you has to do with doing something nice for yourself. And what I wanna share with you today actually has to do with this top that I’m wearing. It’s a Beauty and the Beast pattern shirt that we got at Disney. And when I say, we got at Disney, actually what I have to say is, is that my older daughter forced me to buy it. And of course, as a mom, I fall into that same category that so many of us do that we always take care of our children.

We buy things for them, we take care of other people. And it’s like pulling teeth many times for me to be out shopping, as much as I love to shop, and buying something for myself. I get much more joy out of buying things for other people, especially my girls. But in this particular instance, I saw this top and my daughter looked at me, and she just went, “Buy it.” And I’m like, no, no, no, no, no, and then the truth be known, it was fairly expensive. And I’m like, no, I’m not gonna get. She goes, “Mommy, you need to get this for yourself. “You need to do something nice for yourself.” And I’m like, you know, a lotta times I can sort of weasel out of it but she had this look in her eye that I knew I was not getting out of that store without getting it. So I got it. And fast forward seven years, I literally can say that there has not been one single time that I have worn this top, that I have not gotten at least one, if not two or three, compliments on. I mean, literally, it is the only piece of clothing that I own, that anyone has ever said, wow, I like that. Which may be an argument that I should let my daughter do my shopping for me, but that might be a whole different video.

But the reality is, is that I wasn’t going to do this for myself, and I was going to pass is by and she talked me into it. And what it now becomes is it’s a symbol of that memory of something that I did for myself that keeps on giving because every single time I wear it, and someone says, oh, I love that top, where did you get it? Beauty and Beast, that’s my favorite and on, and on, and on, it is a reminder to me how important it is to occasionally do something nice for myself that is going to bring me gratification, or enjoyment or some type of pleasure that I’m going to look back and have a fond memory on. And so I encourage you to do the exact same thing for yourself.

Go out, and within the next 24 hours, as my daughter looked at me and said, “Mommy, you need to do this”, I’m looking at you and saying, you need to do this. I want you to go out and do something nice for yourself, no matter how big or how small, just simply a token of self-care that is going to be something that is going to bring you that gratification or a pleasant memory that you will always remember this video and this time where you stopped and you said, yeah, you’re right, I am gonna go do something nice for myself. And that is what I would like for you today.

And if you found this video helpful, please share the love with me and click the like button below. And more important, leave me a comment and let me know what you went out and you did for yourself. I would love to hear about it and I’ll look forward to reading the comments. And if you know of anyone that would benefit from this message, please share it with them so it can make a difference in their life, as well. And until next time, go out and keep climbing that ladder of vibration.

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  1. Love your top and love you. Thanks for your advise. I’m going to do something for myself tomorrow !!

  2. Thanks for your video and actually, since my kids have grown up and are out of the house I do things for myself more often now. I remember feeling that I couldn’t or shouldn’t when they were younger and of course I didn’t always have the money. I can truthfully say that I no longer feel guilty about buying something for myself or doing something for myself. Thanks for the reinforcement!!!

  3. After I had bought some Christmas presents for my grandchildren in this lovely , spacious4-floor Amsterdam bookshop, I sat down in their coffee corner with a newspaper and had coffee and a croissant with jam and butter.

  4. Love the blouse so encouraging i think i will.do that this week

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